Divorce Checklist: 7 Ways To Prepare For A Divorce

The divorce rate in Florida ranks among the highest in the U.S., with approximately 3.1 divorces per 1000 people. No matter how common it may be, though, divorce can still be a difficult and stressful process to experience. 

A little preparation can go a long way in ensuring this process goes as smoothly as possible. While every couple and situation is different, you can help protect your rights by following these seven key tips:

1. Consult With An Experienced Divorce Attorney

People often think attorneys are only necessary when a divorce is contested, or the couple has a complicated financial history. However, like all states, Florida has specific laws and regulations regarding divorce. 

Navigating these complexities can be highly challenging, and a lack of legal knowledge could result in costly mistakes and an unfair custody agreement. No matter how amicable you expect the proceedings to be, make sure to start your divorce process by consulting an attorney.

2. Find Support 

Divorce is a major change that can affect every aspect of life. Make sure you have people and other resources to help you through the coming adjustment. In addition to legal counsel, your support team might include a:

• Spiritual advisor, minister, or church family
• Friend or family member who you trust to provide honest feedback
• Workout or walking buddy, as prioritizing physical health is especially important during stressful events
• Therapist, if needed
• Parenting group or parenting professional  
• Financial advisor to help you prepare for your new future

Maintaining social connections can be difficult during divorce, and it is natural for some friends to “take sides” with one member of a couple. Consider taking up a new hobby that will help you meet new friends and stay socially active. 

3. Clarify Finances

Financial troubles are one of the most common causes of divorce. Ending a marriage requires couples to assess all of their debts and assets to prepare for equitable distribution. This can be especially difficult if money problems were already a factor in the dissolution of the marriage. 

Some of this work can be done separately, but the assistance of an independent accountant is helpful if couples are unable to communicate effectively. 

4. Take Inventory Of Your Shared And Personal Properties

Florida is an equitable distribution state. This means the court will make an effort to divide all marital or community property as fairly as possible. 

You may be permitted to retain full ownership of property you own individually. Having a quick inventory prepared can simplify the process. Take photos of the items, if possible, and bring the list with you to attorney meetings so that you won’t have to rely on memory alone. 

5. Start Establishing Your Own Line Of Credit

If you don’t already have bank accounts, loans, or other lines of credit in your name only, it’s time to start establishing them. Start by closing all joint accounts and ordering a credit report to learn more about your credit status. You’ll also want to assess your personal debts and start saving money to pay for the legal fees related to divorce. 

6. Set Boundaries

When a divorce is initiated, each partner has the right to protect their private information and physical privacy. If you’re still living in the family home and your soon-to-be-ex has access to that home, consider opening a P.O. box where you can receive confidential information. 

Establishing boundaries can be especially important when dealing with issues of domestic violence. Close any shared social media, email accounts, or subscriptions. Reset passwords on your personal accounts. Update health insurance documents and auto and life insurance policies. 

Consult with your attorney before taking actions that affect your mutual finances or access to shared properties. Acting rashly could make things more difficult for you in the long run. 

7. Learn More About Florida Divorce Laws

The better informed you are about the legal process of divorce in Florida, the better prepared you will be to handle any complications. Even with experienced legal counsel to guide you, having a basic understanding of the process can help you feel more confident. 

Issues like spousal support and parental rights are complex. The more you know, the more you can advocate for your specific needs and preferences. 

Are You Considering A Divorce?

No one enters a marriage thinking it will end in divorce, but sadly, many do. If you are facing a divorce, taking the time to prepare can make the process less stressful for everyone involved.

No matter the circumstances of your divorce, seeking representation is vital. At McMichen, Cinami & Demps, we can fight to safeguard your rights and best interests every step of the way. Contact our skilled team to schedule a free consultation with an experienced divorce attorney in Orlando today. Call us at 407-898-2161.